Too old for Kubuntu

I have a new laptop (Lenovo 3000 V200). I was quite busy when it arrived so I wanted to install Linux as quickly as possible, so I installed Ubuntu with KDE. This was the first time I installed non-Gentoo Linux on my computer. First hours were great: everything seemed to work just after the installation. OK, I'm quite used to my Fvwm desktop, but I agreed to give it up for the comfort of Kubuntu.

But after a day, my dreams were gone. Installation of Compiz took me more than five hours (the laptop has non-standard video card) and I bet it wouldn't take longer in Gentoo. Next, my wireless card stopped working. Of course that turning the computer off and on again helped (yes, Ubuntu is very similar to MS Windows), but in general I appreciate if I know what is going on.
My last experience with Kubuntu was installation of KDE 4. There is a straightforward manual for this, I followed it and what I got was a real mess -- some hybrid of KDE 3 and 4. No, thanks.

Now I've got Gentoo on the laptop together with good old Fvwm. I did not manage to install my wifi yet, but at least I know what I can expect.